Stood Up

It can be too easy to hear and focus on the bad news of illness and loss. At times in feels as though God has left the building in terms of responses to prayer and we may falter in upholding others in prayer.

Last week I was "stood up" for a visit by a guy in the congregation who had surgery about this time a year ago. His stomach was removed because of cancer and complications in the weeks following meant he nearly died. He did survive but was told that the cancer in the rest of his body would result in his early demise. I spent time with him close to Christmas and in that visit he said that he wouldn't undergo treatment. But you might recall from a blog entry that our pastoral care worker, Beth, followed up with another member whose life had been extended by chemo and radiation and he changed his mind.

Well, he is still with us nine months later, long beyond the original prognosis, and our visit was cancelled (I wasn't really stood up) because he felt well enough to go camping with his wife for the weekend. While these months have been a struggle he has enjoyed some meaningful family time and the gift of another summer. I was pleased to be asked to come some other time.

Also last week I spoke with two other men from St. Paul's, one who took part in our golf tournament. Two years ago at this time of year both were on death's door, one after a serious accident and the other with cancer. We prayed diligently but it looked as though they wouldn't see Christmas. Again, both have their struggles, and both are making the best of each day.

Prayer doesn't always mean a cure. It does bring comfort and courage. I have come to believe that prayer can bring the right people in the right moment, including medical personnel. We need to be aware of the situations which are hopeful, even in tough times.

Thoughts?