We have all seen the women of fundamentalist Muslim communities, dressed in clothing that is designed to erase anything that might be considered feminine. Similarly, orthodox Jewish women who are modestly dressed and wearing wigs to cover the hair God gave them. Religions have tended to express caution about sexuality to the point of making it a source of shame rather than something to be celebrated. Christianity is as guilty in this regard as any other religion.
Does that mean that there should be no boundaries in terms of sexual expression? We are living in what is arguably the most hyper-sexualized society in history. Everything from rampant porn on the internet to musical and dance performances on television which would once have been restricted to strip clubs has changed our attitudes toward sex.
Tonight on the CBC radio program Ideas and again next Monday on a CBC television documentary the impact of changing sexual mores on teens will be explored by Lynn Glazier. I listened to Glazier this morning in an interview on radio. She points out what many of us have seen from a distance and some of you as parents see coming up for your kids. The pressure to be sexual and sexually active for young teens is enormous, often at a stage when the implications of this activity are not understood. School hallways are often the place where this pressure takes place.
As a pastor I wonder what we need to do as a faith community. The "total abstinence because sex is bad" approach of some denominations is a mistake, from my perspective. So is silence.
There are a number of readers with children moving into the tweens and teens stage of life. Several readers are teachers. What are your concerns, fears? Should the church be involved in healthy sex education? I welcome the thoughts and perspectives of others.
The Ideas program airs this evening at 9:05, with the second part next Wednesday. The TV documentary Wired for Sex, Lies and Power Trips: IT'S A TEEN'S WORLD, is on CBC Newsworld' The Passionate Eye Monday, October 5 at 10 pm E.T., repeating Sunday, Oct. 11 at 8 pm E.T.