Today we'll do what many other Canadians will do, drive to the home of one of our three adult children for Thanksgiving dinner. We'll join with them, their spouses, and our four grandchildren in one of those rare opportunities to all be together in one place.
We're grateful that we can sit around a table to share good food and express gratitude for the many blessings of life. For some of us these are gifts from God.
This year is particularly meaningful because a year ago, October 2025, one of our lovely daughters took advantage of the opportunity to have a mammogram at age 40. No symptoms, healthy living, but why not when there is no cost involved in our healthcare system?
To the shock of our daughter and her doctor there was evidence of cancerous cells. The specialist she consulted was not highly concerned and said that she was a Stage 0 patient. But as testing and time progressed she became a Stage 2 breast cancer patient and eventually underwent two operations, Neither of them was as radical as they could have been because of early detection but significant just the same. She was fortunate to be referred to Sunnybrook Hospital in Toronto, one of the best in the world for breast cancer treatment and she was continually impressed by the quality of care she received there.
This said, she spent months going to medical consultations, undergoing scans, as well as the surgeries. All the while she continued to work, with only brief breaks, and mothered two young children. She discovered along the way that many young women are being diagnosed with breast cancer, an alarming number in their twenties and thirties, and too many discover their cancers at much later stages.
Just over two weeks ago our daughter completed three-plus weeks of daily radiation treatments and got to ring the bell declaring her cancer-free, to the best of everyone's professional knowledge.
This has been a tremendously challenging journey for her, her family, and all who love her. Ruth has been a pillar of strength for her with stays in her home, and we've both been involved in trips to hospitals. There is something about watching a child suffer, no matter their age, which can be overwhelming.
We have prayed and offered care as best we could, and today we will give thanks for the outcome. There is a Jewish toast with the Hebrew word L'Chaim. It means "to life!' I find it meaningful because it's not about the past nor a claim for the future. It is a declaration of the gift of life in the moment we are given.
We are impressed that our daughter and her supportive husband have chosen to host our family gathering, given that she is still recovering from the debilitation of her treatment, and we're all pitching in. This will be a special Thanksgiving for all of us.
I hope you are all able to celebrate the goodness of your lives today, whatever may swirl around you. Please keep in mind that October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and that we are blessed to live in a country where there is exceptional medical care without cost to those are living with this disease.










