Shortly before the Grammy's a couple of weeks ago it was announced that neither Chris Brown, nor Rihanna would perform during the ceremonies. Both of these big music stars were last minute cancellations. Soon the rumours started that Brown had been arrested for physically abusing his partner, Rihanna. More recently a police photo of Rihanna's battered face was leaked to the media, a violation of her privacy, but a grim visual reminder of what happens in domestic violence and that even the rich and famous can be perpetrators and victims.
We paid attention to the drama because my wife Ruth is an outreach worker for our local shelter called Bethesda House. Daily she deals with women who get no publicity for their plight but must contend with physical and psychological abuse. While abuse can and does happen in both directions, the reality is that women are far more likely to be physically injured by a partner rather than the other way around.
Our congregation, St. Paul's, has become a strong supporter of the work of Bethesda House. Our UCW, Sunday School, individuals, all find practical ways of caring for the women and children who leave abusive situations. Obviously we want families to be reconciled and healed, but there are times when leaving violence is the safest choice.
Perhaps it is good that Rihanna's photo was published (if it is, in fact, her) because it reminds us that anyone can be the subject of abuse.
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